Slow down · connect · indulge
Thoughtful ways to slow down, spend time together, explore somewhere beautiful, or choose a little something that feels personal to Mary.
Wellness & Relaxation
Sometimes the best dates are the ones where there’s nowhere to rush to.
A peaceful bathhouse, a beautiful spa, warm water, quiet conversation, and time to simply enjoy each other’s company can make for an effortlessly intimate escape.
Asha Urban Baths offers a serene setting with communal baths, saunas, cold plunges, and a peaceful tea lounge—perfect for unwinding, reconnecting, and letting the outside world disappear for a while.
Mary’s Signature Massage Experiences
Immersive · Personal · Unhurried
Mary’s massage experiences are created around relaxation, chemistry, presence, and the pleasure of slowing everything down. Each session is intuitive and thoughtfully tailored to your preferences, combining flowing bodywork, warm massage oils, subtle aromatherapy, and a calming atmosphere.
For guests choosing the Nuru experience, the focus is on a smooth, immersive style of bodywork designed around closeness, sensation, relaxation, and being completely present in the moment.
Hosting locations: USA
A luxurious full-sensory ritual created for those who want time to completely switch off. Warm oil or Nuru gel complements slow, flowing bodywork while the unhurried pace gives you space to settle in, release tension, and enjoy the experience without watching the clock.
Soft surroundings, attentive touch, and Mary’s personal approach make The Escape feel less like an appointment and more like stepping away from everything for a while.
For those who prefer not to rush. This extended experience begins by creating a peaceful atmosphere where you can decompress and become comfortable before transitioning into Mary’s signature flowing Nuru bodywork.
The additional time creates room for deeper relaxation, conversation, closeness, and a softer ending to your experience rather than an abrupt goodbye.
3–4 hours · Bespoke
Mary’s most unhurried experience. Designed individually around the time you have together, this extended session blends relaxation, conversation, luxurious bodywork, and plenty of space to simply enjoy the moment.
No rigid formula. No rushing. Just an experience shaped around you.
Make an afternoon of it
Why begin with the massage when you can make an afternoon of it? Start with tea, light refreshments, or a leisurely lunch where there’s time to talk, laugh, and become comfortable in each other’s company. For something quieter, a relaxing bathhouse visit can become part of the day.
Afterward, settle into a luxurious full-body massage designed to melt away tension and leave you feeling wonderfully relaxed.
Unwind. Connect. Indulge.
Personalize your time
Available enhancements may include prostate-focused massage options, Hot Stone Therapy, Cupping, mutual shower with qualifying Nuru sessions, and sound-bath relaxation for selected 90-minute sessions. Some experiences and enhancements have specific session-length requirements.
Not sure what to choose? Use the private consultation option before booking. Mary will be happy to help you find an experience that suits what you’re looking for.
Places, Experiences & Little Adventures
A memorable date doesn’t always need an elaborate plan. Sometimes it’s simply about choosing somewhere beautiful and enjoying who you’re there with.
Something playful and creative. Enjoy a guided paint-and-sip experience, conversation, plenty of laughs, and a little keepsake from your time together.
Modern Japanese dining, artistic presentation, and an elegant atmosphere for an intimate dinner.
A refined fine-dining experience when the occasion deserves something particularly special.
Wood-fired seafood, oysters, waterfront surroundings, and beautiful Bay Bridge views.
An intimate omakase experience for an evening centered around exceptional Japanese cuisine.
Escape into Tuscan-inspired surroundings with wine tastings, cellar tours, beautiful courtyards, and plenty of opportunities to linger together.
Stay · Reset · Unwind
For something longer than an afternoon, turn your time together into an escape.
Private cottages, vineyard surroundings, spa experiences, outdoor soaking tubs, and evenings beside the fire.
A refined wellness retreat featuring mineral pools, spa experiences, and the relaxed atmosphere of Napa Valley.
Dramatic coastal scenery, spa rituals, beautiful dining, golf, and sunsets overlooking the Pacific.
Private hillside hot tubs, peaceful trails, and mineral-rich relaxation surrounded by nature.
An elegant lakeside escape combining spa treatments, dining, and spectacular Lake Tahoe scenery.
A secluded retreat surrounded by Boynton Canyon, with beautiful desert landscapes and access to Mii amo’s wellness experiences.
A Little Window Into What I Love
If you’d like to surprise me, it doesn’t have to be extravagant. I appreciate gifts that feel thoughtful and personal.
My wishlist includes a few things I love alongside items that support my work, studies, home, travels, and the experiences that continue to inspire me.
View Mary’s Throne Wishlist: coming soon · Marigold: TBA
Prada · Hermès · Gucci · Dior · Coach
Prefer to let Mary choose?
Gift cards are an easy way to give something thoughtful while leaving a little room for temptation and surprise.
Little Things I Enjoy
Rich dark chocolate, chocolate-covered strawberries, beautiful charcuterie boards with artisan cheeses, meats and olives, and dried fruits such as mango, apricot, and pineapple are always welcome.
I enjoy sparkling water dressed with citrus or cucumber and freshly squeezed juices—especially pineapple, watermelon, and orange. For something celebratory, a beautifully made mimosa with fresh fruit purée is always a lovely touch.
The smallest details often make an experience memorable. Choose something because it reminded you of Mary, and that thoughtfulness will mean more than the size of the gift.